A Mother’s Love. A Broken System. A Call for Change. In Evan’s Voice, Nicole Moehring shares a powerful and deeply personal story that exposes the heartbreaking inequities within our justice system. Her son Evan, who has Fragile X Syndrome and autism, was repeatedly sexually abused—and while his neurotypical sister Maci was believed, supported, and received justice after her own assault, Evan was dismissed, silenced, and denied the same protections. Nicole writes with vulnerability, strength, and fierce determination. Her story is one of unimaginable pain, but also unshakable hope. She gives voice to the voiceless—fighting not only for her son, but for every child with a disability who has ever been overlooked or treated as less than. Evan’s Voice is more than a memoir—it’s a movement wrapped in a mother’s grief and courage. It demands that we examine the systemic failures that harm vulnerable individuals and challenges us to listen to those society too often ignores. Nicole’s journey is not only inspiring—it’s a wake-up call. This book will break your heart, but it will also ignite your passion for justice. A must-read for advocates, educators, professionals, and every person who believes in equality, dignity, and human rights.
Daphne Blaze: Goodreads
Evan’s Voice is a harrowing yet profoundly powerful narrative that unveils the systemic failures endured by children with disabilities, told through the deeply personal lens of a mother seeking justice for her son. Nicole Moehring crafts a compelling and courageous memoir that transcends personal grief to become a universal call for reform, awareness, and accountability. At its core, this is the story of Evan, a young boy diagnosed with Fragile X Syndrome and autism, whose experiences of sexual abuse were met not with protection and justice, but with indifference, discrimination, and devastating institutional neglect. Moehring juxtaposes Evan’s treatment with that of his neurotypical sister, Maci, who was also a victim of sexual assault but was believed, supported, and granted justice. This painful contrast illuminates the stark disparities in how society and systems respond to individuals based on their perceived cognitive abilities. Moehring writes with clarity and conviction, weaving raw emotion with factual insight. Her narrative does not sensationalize trauma; rather, it educates the reader on the invisible barriers that children with disabilities and their families face when navigating law enforcement, medical systems, and mental health resources. The result is an unflinching portrait of a mother’s unyielding love and relentless advocacy in the face of heartbreak. Evan’s Voice is more than a memoir, it is a testament to resilience and an urgent indictment of the systemic inequities that persist in child protection and disability justice. Moehring’s eloquence and fortitude transform personal tragedy into a voice for the voiceless, amplifying the need for disability-inclusive policies, trauma-informed care, and a cultural shift in how we protect our most vulnerable. A must-read for advocates, educators, policymakers, and any reader committed to justice and human dignity, Evan’s Voice is a sobering reminder of the work yet to be done, and a beacon of hope for the transformative power of truth-telling.
Betty: Betty, Goodreads
Nicole Moehring is a powerful and inspiring voice for one of the most vulnerable groups in our society, individuals with disabilities. As an international award-winning author and sought-after speaker, she brings passion, authenticity, and deep personal commitment to her advocacy against abuse. Through her organization, Voices of Change 2018, Nicole has created a platform that not only raises awareness but also drives real action and change.
Linda: Nicole has created a platform that not only raises awareness but also drives real action and change.
Your new book, Evan's Voice, captivated me from the first page. I felt deeply for Nicole's family through every moment of the story. It’s a powerful reminder of resilience and strength in the face of unimaginable challenges. This powerful journey captures Nicole and her family's raw emotions and heartfelt experiences as they face horror repeatedly. They exemplify the resilience needed to confront the failings of systems that should support children with special needs. Nicole boldly addresses complex topics that many shy away from, and her unwavering strength and determination inspire us all to recognize the importance of these issues while striving to create positive change in the lives of others. Nicole, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for the incredible vision you’ve demonstrated while facing such unimaginable challenges. I can only imagine how difficult it has been, yet you’ve taken courageous steps to turn that vision into reality. Your dedication and perseverance are truly inspiring. Your impact touches so many lives, and your efforts foster hope and bring about meaningful change. Thank you for everything you do.
Samantha: "Evan's Voice" is truly eye-opening and provides a raw, honest glimpse into emotions that many family's can unfortunatly relate to. It’s deeply touching and resonates on a personal level, reminding us of our shared humanity.
Every time Nicole takes the stage, she gives a voice to those who have been silenced for too long. Her passion is palpable. Her courage is contagious. She doesn’t just advocate, she demands change, and she brings others with her. Nicole’s work is a lifeline for families, a wake-up call for communities, and a beacon of hope for survivors. She is a true warrior for justice, and the world is better because she refuses to stay silent.
Ms. Andrews: Nicole is giving a voice to those who have been silence for way too long. Nicole's work is a lifeline for families, a wake-up call for society as we face dire need for systemic change.
Evan’s Voice is a deeply personal and unforgettable story that sheds light on one of society’s most painful and overlooked realities: how children with disabilities are often denied justice, protection, and basic human dignity. Nicole Moehring courageously recounts the trauma her family endured—both of her children victims of sexual abuse, but only one truly heard. While her daughter, Maci, was believed and supported, her son Evan—who has Fragile X Syndrome and autism—was met with silence, disbelief, and systemic neglect. The injustice is staggering, and Nicole does not hold back in exposing the heartbreak, frustration, and rage that came with being a mother forced to fight a system stacked against her child. What makes Evan’s Voice so compelling is its blend of vulnerability and strength. Nicole’s writing is honest and raw, but her message is clear: every child deserves to be heard, believed, and protected—regardless of their abilities. This book is a powerful reminder of the urgent need for reform, empathy, and education. It’s not just Evan’s story—it’s the story of countless children whose voices are never given the chance to be heard. Nicole Moehring has given them that voice. A deeply moving and essential read.
Lina: Goodreads
I could not put your new book, Evan’s Voice, down once I started reading it. I felt all the feelings for Nicole's family as I read it. I can’t imagine how they are still feeling. 💔 It is a raw, emotional, heartfelt journey describing the real-life experiences of the horror Nicole and her family have lived through repeatedly. And one they continue to live. How many systems fail kids with special needs. Nicole brings light to so many topics that others are afraid to even mention. I have so much respect for the strength and fortitude that you have been able to recognize the importance of these issues amongst your own pain and want to make such a difference in the lives of others. Thank you, Nicole, for the vision you had as you faced such unthinkable adversities, even now, and still put action to your vision. YOU are moving mountains and making a profound impact on the special needs community. 🙏🏻 Nicole is not only strong but also one of the most selfless, kind, and humble women I have ever had the privilege of meeting. I am blessed to know you! I highly recommend purchasing her new book! It’s eye-opening to the change that needs to happen for this vulnerable population.
Amanda: Customer Review, Verified Purchase
Nicole's book, *Finding Myself*, arrived in my life when I needed it most, and I’m truly grateful for that recommendation. Her writing is deeply raw and honest, revealing her journey through the pain of abuse and the challenges that accompanied it. As I read her story, I felt a powerful connection; her experiences resonated with my own struggles, both painful and comforting. Nicole's willingness to share her truth creates a space for others to feel seen and understood. In a dark time in my life, her words offered hope and reassurance that I am not alone. Thank you, Nicole, for your strength and courage in addressing tough topics that deserve attention. Your beautifully crafted narrative has inspired me and serves as a beacon of hope for many of us facing similar battles.
Amy: Customer Review, Finding Myself, 10-26-2024
Nicole Moehring bravely speaks the painful truth and empowers others to follow her example by showing the way a family can work together to face every difficulty.💜
Betty Reich: Friend, Facebook Review, Verified Purchase
While reading this book, I was exposed to what abuse looks like an all its forms. She is so strong, but unaware of the impact that she has made not only on her family, but on those who have read her book. She says that her children are her hope, but they look to her I’m sure as their hero, because not only did she protect, and save them, but she saved herself as well. This book was a great read as far as getting insight into a persons life. I encourage others to read it.
Jessica: Amazon, Reviewed in the United States on October 26, 2023
Highly recommend reading this. Real. Raw. Heartfelt. Emotional and full of real life experiences people aren’t talking about! Kudos to the author!!!!!
Melissa1: Barns and Noble Review, Verified Purchase
I love her honesty and dedication to not let abusers have the upper hand. She helps the abused to have a voice.
Maddy Hesketh: Facebook Review
I am so happy Nicole has shared her story with the world! Uplifting, encouraging, courageous!
Imara Moses: Amazon, Verified Purchase
Nicole has so much strength. She's fighting every day to make this world better for survivors. And Voices of Change is an amazing organization for survivors.
Stevie Croisant: Founder, We are HER
Such an inspiring read! I could not put this book down. The author has a way of telling her story in such a beautiful way. She makes you feel as if you are not alone regardless of what you may be going through, and that it is ok to get the help that you may need. The book is very relatable, if not for yourself, for friends and family that you know have gone through similar trials and tribulations. I didn’t want it to end!
Katie: Amazon, Verified Purchase
Nicole Moehring’s Finding Myself is a powerful memoir that speaks to the hearts of anyone who has faced overwhelming adversity. Through deeply personal reflections, Nicole shares her life’s most painful and transformative experiences—grappling with infertility, the heartbreak of a failed adoption, raising a child with complex disabilities, and surviving domestic abuse. With grace and vulnerability, she takes readers through her darkest moments and shows how each trial became a stepping stone toward rediscovery and empowerment. Her writing is both heartfelt and courageous, offering a glimpse into the raw emotions of a woman determined not to be defeated by life’s hardships. Nicole’s journey is not just about survival—it’s about reclaiming her identity, her worth, and ultimately, finding a love that is genuine and healing. Finding Myself is a story of pain, yes—but also of hope, strength, and the incredible resilience of the human spirit. This book is a must-read for anyone in need of encouragement, especially those walking through their own battles. Nicole’s voice is one of inspiration, proving that even in the aftermath of brokenness, wholeness is possible.
Survivor68: Goodreads
If you are looking for a source of hope and strength, this book is it. After all the struggles and heartache she has gone through, Nicole continues to lean on the love on her heart and the innate drive to bring good into the world.
Amazon Customer: Amazon Review, Verified Purchase
Nicole’s book is honest, heartfelt, raw and real. It’s a must read! Thank you for sharing your story to encourage others that they aren’t alone and to empower people by your strength, determination and bravery. You have given me so much hope on my own journey.
Natalie Grace: Facebook Review, Verified Purchase
This is a powerful and motivational book written by an excellent author. All that Ms. Moehring endured and overcame is a testament to her strength, resilience, and bravery. I highly recommend purchasing this book.
LB: Amazon, Verified Purchase
Nicole Moehring is the definition of strength, integrity, perseverance and determination. She is using her pain to fight for changes to help others. She is a beautiful woman, inside and out. I am honored to know her and have referred many individuals to her and her organization.
Harper Allen, Verified Purchase
I believe this book will open many eyes about this terrible problem of physical and mental abuse. This woman is amazing and has done a great deal with this book. I recommend that everyone read it and encourage all of your friends and family to do the same!
Dianne Miller: Amazon Review, Verified Purchase
Nicole is a true champion and advocate for ending sexual violence. I have had the opportunity to work with Nicole for the past 3 years and she is dedicated, organized, and compassionate. Her drive will help her continue to grow her non-profit, Voices of Change. If you have the opportunity to work with her, you won't regret.
Kristine Irwine, MBA: Founder, Voices of Hope 2015
Nicole is an extremely humble individual with an amazing heart! She empowers and inspires others to want to be better. She has had such a positive impact in so many lives. Nicole’s book, Finding Myself, is a powerful testament that someone can go through the darkest times and rise above! I highly recommend reading it!
Joyce Boyer: Purchased Finding Myself on NicoleMoehring.org, Verified Purchase
This book is a quick read chock full of inspiring stories, with an underlying message to trust your gut. I felt moved by Nicole’s optimistic perseverance; she details how trusting her instincts and choosing to think positively can truly be life changing. Such a wonderful reminder during these crazy and unprecedented times! Do yourself a favor and read her book to remind yourself of the power of love and optimism.
Susie: Amazon Review, Verified Purchase
What a true testimony to how you can go through anything and come out on the other side! I am going through similar situations and a friend recommended Ms. Moehring's book to me. I am so glad I read it. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story to help others! Life Changing, Inspirational, Emotional, Quick Read, Couldn't Put It Down
Veronica211: Barns and Noble Review, Verified Purchase
The author did a great job of bringing us on the journey with her. She shared important details and moments of discovery that let us understand how abuse can start, without us realizing it, be able to persist even though it's not wanted. I'm thankful to Nicole for her vulnerability and transparency. This book is both a guide and cautionary tale that can help so many, especially survivors.
TL Robinson: Amazon, Verified Purchase
It is pleasure to be able to write a recommendation for Nicole. I have been acquainted with Nicole over the past 3 years on a professional level. Nicole is diligent, insightful and inspiring. Nicole works from the 'Heart" and is tireless in her work. Nicole has presented at our Statewide professional development events as a featured speaker for OACB and the Ohio Attorney General Conference, Crime Victims with Developmental Disabilities. Nicole received both high ratings and positive comments for her presentations at both events.
William (Willie) Jones L.S.W. CTRS: Director Health, Safety and Wellness at OACB, Verified
I cried from beginning to end. Raw. True. Honest. Real. The author writes about uncomfortable topics we need to be discussing as a society, What a journey she has been on but her perseverance and determination to make sure she would rise above is phenomenal! She is an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your vulnerable side and showing others it’s ok to use your voice! This is a MUST READ!!!!! I’m so sorry for your heartaches but so glad you found yourself and overcame so much!
Christina: Powells Review
Nicole is an amazing woman of strength. Society needs to learn to be the voice for our children and she is making it possible with the awareness of educational guidance and protection for our children. It also gives a chance for others to share their stories of being a victim of abuse. I am extremely proud of the work she has done and highly recommend her this activism to go nationally.
Roanne Hancock Lisi: Friend, Facebook Review
Author Nicole Moehring, has penned down a extremely well articulated journey of a lady, her upbringing, her dreams, her desires, her experience etc. This book is definitely a emotional roller coaster ride in each and every aspect. The story has life's every aspect and perspective like, feelings, emotions, honesty, depravity, achievements, lost battles etc. The content of this story will definitely be a morale boost for a lot of emotionally broken or people those who have seen a lot in their lives. The 104 page book, will take you through all riddles of life. Its a story of a young beautiful girl with all natural and next door aspirations of being a perfect human being and to be like her own mother. At times with her dreams and desires she has her own way of deciding things of her own. Even after having a loving affair, things dint turn and she had to move on by marrying someone by the peer pressure of her family and close friends. All is going well, till she gets the first surprise of her life that she cannot be impregnated as her beloved husband has a uncommon disease, due to which she cannot become pregnant naturally. Over the time, even after personal decisions and social pressure, they both decide to get insemination, but this was against their own religious catholic Godmen whom they have believed over the years. As time moved , they thought of adoption, and finally after fulfilling all the formalities, they were shattered when at the last moment the birth parent denied to let go of their son. This time, she was shattered. Emotions, feelings excitement all again back to square one. There was a time when they both gave hoped an started living live normally. For the husband, got lost amongst is work, office colleagues, bar, etc and for her, she began to believe that she was born with bad stars. The story takes a further tragic turn, when she gets a chance of adoption again, and this for a beautiful princess. Time changes and she and her husband rejoiced after a long time with smiles on their faces and thankful to GOD for giving them another chance only till the day to find out that their child has a permanent medical condition PKD a significant kidney disease. The story of a single mom raised girl, who has always dreamt of just having the same desires and cravings of a normal teenage girl. A failed affair, a non reluctant marriage, followed by unexpected pregnancy issues. The story is not for the faint hearted. definitely What made me write such review of the book, is because, this is the story of millions of people around the globe who have been a victim of low self-esteem, self-worth, self-confidence, feeling lost, alone or depressed because of being in an unhappy relationship and feel there is no way out. So what happens to the protagonist of the story , referred to as SHE above. Author Nicole, with such simple, extremely empathetic, charismatic language, hopes that with her story of strength, bravery, persistence, courage, and determination will inspire someone else to keep going and never give up. This book will actually help you understand the actual meaning of RESILIENCE. And definitely for all those souls out there who are fighting their daily battles in one way or the other, they should definitely buy this book (Finding Myself) in order to Find Themselves. Part of the proceeds will be donated to Nicole’s Nonprofit Organization, Voices of Change 2018. To learn more about Voices of Change 2018, please visit, www.voicesofchange2018.org
Nasim Khan: Good Reads Review, Verified Purchase
“I didn’t want sympathy. I wanted to support. There is a huge difference between those two things. I am not a person who plays the role of a victim. I play the cards life deals me, good or bad.” Life doesn’t always go as planned. Well, that is what happened with Nicole Moehring. This book is a short collection of events that took place in Nicole’s life which, first broke her and then made her. Throughout the book, she tells how she survived all the downs of her life and of course it wasn’t easy. Nicole always wanted to be married and be a mom. But after getting married to her first husband, Gary, they discovered that Gary couldn’t get her pregnant and this broke her heart. Later on, after trying a lot of other ways, she decided to go for adoption. She adopted two children, Maci and Evan, both of them had medical issues and not the normal ones. But Nicole was very sure that she was chosen to be their mom for a reason and she would do anything in her power to protect them and she did. They both are happy and healthy today. Her husband abused her physically, mentally and psychologically. She divorced him and began a new life. She was finally free. Over time, she met Chris at her office, got close, fell in love and got married again. Chris is her constant support and all her dreams of having a family have come true. This book, I believe, is a brilliant initiative in bringing all this knowledge in front of the youth which ignores abuse, whatever kind it may be. What I like about Nicole’s writing was that she constantly believed her “gut feeling” and that led her to the correct path. Also, she always thought that certain things “would never happen to her” but they did and she fought. This book is a kind of autobiography and a journal. With the length of only one hundred pages, it is easy to consume. “Finding Myself” by Nicole Moehring is an inspiring and strengthening short booklet that can prove to be very influential to many readers. I’d recommend this to readers who prefer case studies, those who have gone through some kind of abuse in their lives and those who are unable to speak about their sadness. This book will stand by you.
Gaurika Gandhi: Good Reads Review, Verified Purchase
One womans story of overcoming mental abuse, marital problems and many sad disappointments with tring to become a mother. Staying strong and continuing to become an advocate for woman and children comes together in her book. An encouraging story that one can get through many adversities in life.
Pat M.: Amazon Review, Verified Purchase
If you are looking for a source of hope and strength, this book is it. After all the struggles and heartache she has gone through, Nicole continues to lean on the love on her heart and the innate drive to bring good into the world.
Amazon Customer: Amazon Review, Verified Purchase
Just finished your book and cried, cheered, and a whole array of emotions. Your strength is amazing and you are an admirable advocate! This is a great read. Candid and honest. Everyone should read this!!
Belinda Puchajda: Facebook Review, Verified Purchase
Nicole is a true crusader in every sense of the word!! She works tirelessly for her 2 children and advocates on their behalf. But Nicole also opens herself up to helping all people! Many of us have benefited from her work and never-ending support! she is one outstanding, extraordinary person!!
Carol Mcnutt: Facebook Review, Verified Purchase